Size a widget while drawing it, not in a pass of its own

`desired_width`/`desired_height`, `WidgetAxisFns`, `SizeCtx` and the size
cache are gone. A widget states what it used with `Painter::set_size`
while it draws, and `Painter::widget` hands back a `DrawResult` whose
`size()` both reads the child and records that this widget's size depends
on it. Reading nothing keeps the parent independent of what the child came
to.

`Span` is what the change is for. It takes each child's `size_hint` where
there is one, draws only the children that cannot answer, allocates the
flexible space, then places everything -- which deletes `desired_ortho`,
whose own comment said it "literally copies draw ... which makes this slow
and not cool".

Invalidation follows the dependency edges the draw recorded: a widget that
needs redrawing hands off to the highest ancestor that read its size,
instead of re-running a measurement to find out whether anything changed.

`Widget::size_dependence(axis)` says how much of its box a widget's
drawing depends on -- none of it, its own extent, or the whole box -- so
the retained path can keep a drawing and write a new box into it. Asked
per axis, because wrapped text depends on the width it is offered and not
on the height. `Internal` does not yet buy more than `External`: keeping a
drawing when only the room around it changed is a translation, which waits
for the move chain.

`tests/retained.rs` covers the second frame rather than the first, which
is where the bugs were: a placed child that was not recorded as one got
pruned as departed on the next draw.

`examples/text.rs` is new, since wrapping was the one thing here with no
way to see it on its own.

examples/text.rs

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+//! Text sizing: wrapped text reads the width it is offered, fixed text does
+//! not, and both report a height their container lays out around.
+
+use iris::prelude::*;
+
+fn main() {
+    DefaultApp::<State>::run();
+}
+
+#[derive(DefaultUiState)]
+struct State {
+    ui_state: DefaultUiState,
+}
+
+const SAMPLE: &str = "Wrapping shapes one source into as many lines as its container \
+    leaves room for, so the height of a paragraph is an answer rather than a setting, and \
+    the same words in a narrower box come back taller. Resize the window and watch the \
+    text below reflow into a different number of lines while nothing about it changes.";
+
+impl DefaultAppState for State {
+    fn new(mut ui_state: DefaultUiState, rsc: &mut DefaultRsc<Self>, _: Proxy<Self>) -> Self {
+        let panel = || rect(Color::WHITE.darker(0.85));
+
+        let wrapped = wtext(SAMPLE)
+            .size(28)
+            .wrap(true)
+            .text_align(Align::LEFT)
+            .pad(16)
+            .background(panel());
+
+        let aligned = (
+            wtext("left").size(24).text_align(Align::LEFT),
+            wtext("centred").size(24).text_align(Align::CENTER),
+            wtext("right").size(24).text_align(Align::RIGHT),
+        )
+            .span(Dir::DOWN)
+            .gap(8)
+            .pad(16)
+            .background(panel());
+
+        // The same words in half the width, which is a different number of
+        // lines and so a different height. A declared width only holds along
+        // a span's own axis, hence the row.
+        let narrow = (
+            wtext(SAMPLE)
+                .size(20)
+                .wrap(true)
+                .pad(16)
+                .background(panel())
+                .align(Align::TOP)
+                .width(rel(0.5)),
+            rect(Color::WHITE.darker(0.95)),
+        )
+            .span(Dir::RIGHT);
+
+        (wrapped, aligned, narrow)
+            .span(Dir::DOWN)
+            .gap(12)
+            .pad(12)
+            .set_root(rsc, &mut ui_state);
+        Self { ui_state }
+    }
+}