A message written into the tail of a turn is read the moment that turn's
`result` lands: the session reports idle and is running again in the same
breath. The phone that sent it got "finished" in between -- seconds before
anything it asked for had been done, which is the notification arriving to
say the opposite of what is happening.
`notification_for` now takes how many messages the session has been given
and not started reading, and a turn ending with any of them waiting is not
an ending. The count is kept in `pump`, from the recorded events, because
that is the one place that sees all of them in transcript order: a
`messageQueued` up, and the `userMessage` that resolves it or a
`messageDropped` down. Asking the driver instead would answer about the
moment the question was asked rather than the moment the status was
written, which is the same class of mistake as reading a session's status
to decide what a queue contains.
It deliberately does not suppress *awaiting input*. A question is worth
interrupting somebody for whatever is queued behind it -- the queue is
precisely what will not move until it is answered.
Tested both halves: the decision on the number, and the number itself,
where an echo turn that reads its queued message before going idle still
announces its finish. That last is the case a suppression written slightly
wrong silences, and it is the common one.