Say narrow_rel_base, and let a container pass None for it

`narrow` said what the argument did to a value it never named, so a reader
had to go and find out which value. It is `narrow_rel_base`, and the
resolved one stays the bare `rel_base` -- which is also the only one in
`Painter`, `Placing` and `LayoutHolds`, where there is nothing to tell it
apart from.

It takes `impl Into<Option<[Option<Len>; 2]>>`, so a container that does not
narrow anything writes `None` rather than `[None; 2]`, and `Span` builds the
one case that does with a `then` instead of a mutable array.

Cold layout is byte-identical to `84dad21`.

src/widget/position/stack.rs

@@ -23,7 +23,7 @@ impl Widget for Stack {
             Some((i, child)) => {
                 painter.child_layer_at(i);
                 painter
-                    .widget_at(child, [None; 2], [Place::Fill(Part::WHOLE); 2])
+                    .widget_at(child, None, [Place::Fill(Part::WHOLE); 2])
                     .size()
             }
             None => Size::LEFTOVER,
@@ -45,7 +45,7 @@ impl Widget for Stack {
                 continue;
             }
             painter.child_layer_at(i);
-            painter.widget_at(child, [None; 2], place);
+            painter.widget_at(child, None, place);
         }
         size
     }