Return the size from draw, and fold placing back into drawing

Review response.

`Painter::set_size` is gone: `Widget::draw` returns the `Size` instead, so
a widget that does not say what it used cannot compile rather than
panicking at the widget that forgot. That also settles setting it twice --
a branch that learns something late just returns a different value.

`Painter::place` and `UiRenderState::place` are gone too. `draw_inner`
already tried to reuse an active widget's drawing before redrawing it, so
`place` was `widget_within` with its own bookkeeping bolted on; drawing a
child a second time now *is* how a parent puts it where it belongs, and a
child is deduplicated in `children` because listing one twice would move
it twice. The unification also drops `place`'s use of `ActiveData::layer`,
which is the layer a widget's own `child_layer()` left the painter on
rather than the layer it was drawn into.

What `place` did unconditionally and `widget_within` did not is record the
size dependency, so `Painter::size_hint` now records one: reading a
child's length to lay out around it is reading its size, whether it came
from a draw or from a hint. `tests/retained.rs` has a parent that only
ever reads the hint, which is the case no existing widget exercises.

`()` sizes itself `Size::default()` -- rest -- rather than zero, so it is
a gap that takes an even share of a span; `WidgetPtr` with nothing in it
does the same, since it is the same situation. `Widget::on_resize`'s
default body said `Translate` while the enum's `#[default]` said `Redraw`;
it now defers to the enum.

`was` is `old` throughout, the `OnResize` variant comments are gone, and
so are two empty `impl` blocks.

Checked: fmt, clippy and 27 tests across the workspace; `tabs` on each of
its five tabs, and `tabs` with a replay that adds two images, all
byte-identical to `upstream/main`; `view` and `minimal` likewise; and the
`text` example rendered at 1920x1200 and 900x1200 to see the paragraph
reflow and its container follow.

tests/retained.rs

@@ -14,9 +14,9 @@ struct Counted {
 }
 
 impl Widget for Counted {
-    fn draw(&mut self, painter: &mut Painter) {
+    fn draw(&mut self, _: &mut Painter) -> Size {
         self.draws.set(self.draws.get() + 1);
-        painter.set_size(self.size);
+        self.size
     }
 
     fn on_resize(&self, _: Axis) -> OnResize {
@@ -131,3 +131,35 @@ fn a_placed_child_survives_the_next_frame() {
     assert_corners!(h, top, (0, 0), (400, 80));
     assert_corners!(h, bottom, (0, 80), (400, 200));
 }
+
+/// Lays its child out from the hint alone, never reading what it drew.
+struct FromHint {
+    inner: StrongWidget,
+}
+
+impl Widget for FromHint {
+    fn draw(&mut self, painter: &mut Painter) -> Size {
+        let len = painter.size_hint(&self.inner, Axis::Y).unwrap();
+        let mut region = UiRegion::FULL;
+        region.y.end = region.y.start.offset(len.abs);
+        painter.widget_within(&self.inner, region);
+        Size::REST
+    }
+}
+
+#[test]
+fn a_parent_that_only_read_a_hint_relays_out_when_the_hint_changes() {
+    let mut h = Harness::new((400, 200));
+    let inner = rect(Color::RED).height(80).add(&mut h.rsc);
+    let parent = FromHint {
+        inner: inner.add_strong(&mut h.rsc),
+    }
+    .add(&mut h.rsc);
+    h.set_root(parent);
+    assert_corners!(h, inner, (0, 0), (400, 80));
+
+    h.rsc[inner].y = Some(Len::abs(120));
+    h.frame();
+
+    assert_corners!(h, inner, (0, 0), (400, 120));
+}