Defer a twice-asked widget's local redraw to its parent

A span asks a share child twice in one draw: in the room, whose answer
its slots rest on, and in the decided slot, whose cross-axis answer it
reads. The record keeps only the second question, so a local redraw that
found that answer unchanged never told the row that the first had --
seed 946 at depth 6, where emptying a fixed-height column turns it from
a share into a fixed width as wide as the row. A widget its parent asked
more than once in one draw now defers to that parent, like one whose
declared length changed. Pinned as
unsettled::emptying_a_column_the_row_asked_twice_asks_the_row_again.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Fable 5.1 <noreply@anthropic.com>

core/src/ui/active.rs

@@ -40,6 +40,11 @@ pub struct ActiveData {
     /// The measured answer and its dependencies. A hint-only dependency or
     /// a widget first encountered during placement has no measurement yet.
     pub answer: Option<(Size, LayoutHolds)>,
+    /// Asked more than once in its parent's last draw -- measured in one box
+    /// and then asked in the one the parent decided. The parent's layout
+    /// rests on the first answer and its drawing on the last, so only the
+    /// parent can ask either again.
+    pub re_asked: bool,
     /// What the widget said it used of its frame, the last time it drew.
     pub size: Size,
     /// The frame and extent reads that this drawing holds for.